A manifesto for the single ones I am single, not empty. I am open, not available to everything. I no longer confuse desire with truth. I no longer mistake intensity for alignment. Not every instinct deserves action. Some instincts are born from ego, self-image, and hunger to be chosen. Some instincts rise when I am […]
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How We Mistook Numbness for Self-Acceptance There’s something I saw recently that hasn’t left my mind — a quiet heartbreak disguised as a beach day in Goa. A row of long chairs, families sunk deep into them, beers stacked like rituals, children being shouted at over things so small they almost don’t exist, and adults
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This morning, anger returned. Not the old storm that used to burn through my chest, but a quieter version — controlled, almost disappointed. An ex from long ago came to visit. There are no remaining feelings, no hidden stories — just a thread of shared history that occasionally crosses paths. But last night, he drank
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Every relationship begins because something about the other person makes us feel good. They awaken a part of us that feels alive — a softness, a confidence, a version of ourselves we want to keep close. That’s why we choose who we choose. Not because of who they are, but because of how we feel
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It hit me after watching A Big Bold Beautiful Journey — that quiet ache of wanting someone again. Not to fill my emptiness, but to walk beside me with his own fullness. Five years of solitude had shaped me into something I never expected: a woman so whole in her own rhythm that love now
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“On learning to trust the divine hand that answers your prayers through the very changes you fear” The Subtle Whisper Change never begins with chaos. It begins with a whisper — a restlessness you can’t explain, a small spending decision that feels oddly significant, a person who appears out of nowhere and leaves you thinking
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The Tree and the Dung A tree may bear fruit for a season if you force it, but if the soil beneath is barren, nothing truly changes. This is what we do with long-term illness — diabetes, hypertension, the quiet syndromes of modern life. We pour pharmaceuticals into tired bodies, but the roots remain hungry.
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When I began this journey, the first thing I cared for wasn’t my mind, my career, or even my body as a whole. It was my gut bacteria. My biome. That invisible little world inside me that decides how I feel, how I think, how I live. I treated it like my own child. I
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We’re taught that strength means control — over people, situations, even ourselves. But real strength is quieter. It comes alive when we face our fears, sit in solitude, and stop proving. This is power without control, a new way of being strong.
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Ego doesn’t always look like arrogance. Sometimes it hides behind sacrifice, service, or “good intentions.” This reflection uncovers the many ways ego wears masks — from parenting to spirituality — and what true freedom feels like when we see through it.
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